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Are Men Intimidated by Strong Independent Women?



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Show #51: My guest on the show is Joe Amoia, Dating & Relationship Strategist at GPSforLove.com.

You’re an amazing woman! You’re strong, independent and have a successful career.  Your friends and family can’t figure out why you’re single.  They tell you that you’re beautiful, successful and have it all…everything that is, except the right man!

You’re pretty sure the reason why you’re single is because men are intimidated by a strong independent woman!

You think that men can’t handle you being as successful in your career, as they are in theirs.  And they’re intimidated by the fact that you don’t really need a man, because you’re fine on your own and make enough money to support yourself. 

While it is true, some men can be intimidated by you being so strong & independent, but have you ever stopped to think that maybe men aren’t really intimidated by you….maybe you’re making some of the biggest dating mistakes that strong, independent women can make! 

The Biggest Dating Mistakes Strong Independent Women Make:


  • Projecting yourself as self sufficient and having the attitude of, “I don’t need a man…I can take care of myself!”
  • Forgetting to leave the masculine energy at the office
  • Most strong, independent women want an alpha male, but don’t realize that an alpha male doesn’t want a woman with masculine energy
  • Your career isn’t what is going to attract a man
  • You have to analyze your love life and become aware of what’s not really working in your love life
  • You have to learn how to be vulnerable (which a lot of strong, independent women have a hard time doing)
  • You don’t let the guy earn your trust
  • You’re afraid of getting hurt, so you put up a tough persona around a man

If you liked this interview, watch Joe’s other interviews: Quick Fix Dating Tips Don’t Work! & Why Do Men Just Disappear?


Dating Tips for Women  Watch the Single in Stilettos Shows on YouTube

  1. GoodMenAreSingleBecauseOfThis says:

    Well with many women today that are strong and very independent since many of the women that have their Careers now are so very high maintenance, independent, selfish, spoiled, greedy, picky, and so very money hungry is the real Excellent Reason why many of us Good men are still Single today since so many of these women want the Best of all and will Never settle for Less. They will Never get involved with a man that makes much Less money than they do because of their Greed And Selfishness that they carry around with them wherever they go which is a real shame since Most of the women of years ago were Never Ever like that at all. So this is a very Good Reason to Blame women why many of us men are still Single today which many of us would have been married with a family already had we met the right Good woman to Accept us for who we really are since many of us just make enough money to get by. And it really hurts me to see so many others out there that were very Blessed to have that gift of life that many of us still Don’t have today which we really Can’t Blame ourselves at all to begin with since the women of today have really Changed compared too the women that were so much different back then since many of us by now would have been all settled down had we been born back then since many of us Good men were just born at a very bad time Unfortunately.

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