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Announcing the launch of the first Single in Stilettos Show! Each week, I’ll interview a top Dating, Relationship or Sex Expert on a topic that will help you with your dating life.
Show #1: My first guest on the show is Lori Bizzoco, Founder & Executive Editor of CupidsPulse.com. CupidsPulse is a site that gives you the inside scoop on trending celebrity news when it comes to dating & relationships.

Lori changed her dating life & got married in a year

I kick off the very first Single in Stilettos Show with an interview with Lori Bizzoco, Founder & Executive Editor of CupidsPulse.com.
Lori has a very inspiring story about how she broke off an engagement in her early 30’s, because she knew her fiance just wasn’t the one.
She dated different men through her 30’s, but never found the right guy to marry.
In her late 30’s, she finally realized that she needed to change if she was going to meet the right guy to marry.
Within a year, she completely changed her dating life and opened herself up. She ended up meeting her now husband and getting married with a year. She got pregnant with the first year, and had her second daughter in her 40’s.

Have you ever felt like giving up when it comes to dating?

Have you ever felt like giving up, in trying to find the right guy to get married to?
Do you ever feel like it’s too late for you to find a man and get married?
Do you think that you’re young and you have plenty of time to find the right guy to marry?
If you answered “yes” to any of the above questions, then you need to watch the show.
Lori’s story will inspire you to realize that you can change you life no matter how old you are and you can meet & get married to the right guy within a year!
Tell us what you think of Lori’s story and if it inspires you to  change your dating life, like she did!
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  1. Pam Simpson says:

    Lori Bizzoco did right by herself. No matter what your age or life situation, if you’re engaged to a guy you know is not the one call it off. The end result is going to be a loveless marriage ending in divorce anyway, so why put yourself through the suffering.

    1. I completely agree, Pam! And the good news is, Lori’s happily married now with 2 children! 🙂

    2. SingleinStilettos says:

      I completely agree, Pam! And the good news is, Lori’s happily married now with 2 children!

  2. Jana Yarovich says:

    Congrats on the launch of your first Single in Stilettos Show and for having the amazing Lori Bizzoco on it’s debut. I was really interesting!

    1. SingleinStilettos says:

      Thanks so much, Jana! Glad you liked it. 🙂

  3. Da Voice In My Head says:

    Just wanted to say I love this site so much I tweeted a link to this page.

    1. SingleinStilettos says:

      Awww, you’re so sweet…thank you so much for the compliment! 🙂

  4. Kelly Smart says:

    This looks like it will be both a fun show and informative.

    1. SingleinStilettos says:

      Thanks, Kelly! I release a new show every Friday, so tune in! We’re covering a new topic each week. 🙂

  5. SingleinStilettos says:

    Thanks, Brook! We do a new show each week, every Friday. Here’s all our other shows: https://yournextamazingstory.com/dating-tips-advice-women-video-show
    The one we just released yesterday was: When should I sleep with a guy?
    Enjoy! And thanks again. 🙂

  6. Kimberly Murrow says:

    I really like Single In Stilettos and I think this show is off to a great start with the interview with Lori Bizzoco.

    1. SingleinStilettos says:

      Thanks Kimberly, I’m really glad you like it! We release a new show each week, we’re already on Show #10! 🙂

  7. Udine Jones says:

    This was a great interview and I’m betting this will be a great series.

    1. SingleinStilettos says:

      Thanks Udine….I really appreciate the feedback! 🙂

  8. Marilyn J says:

    This was an interesting post and video. So will the Single in Stilettos Show only have guests relating to being single? This is not a negative, I loved the format and thought Lori Bizzoco was a great guest to have on your first show. Just curious is all.

    1. SingleinStilettos says:

      Thanks, Marilyn! This was the first show, the rest of the shows are all interviews with top Dating & Relationship Experts giving great dating tips & advice.
      You can find all the interviews we’ve done so far here: https://yournextamazingstory.com/dating-tips-advice-women-video-show
      We release a new show every Friday! 🙂

  9. Sonia says:

    I think a lot of MEN have a list they need to throw out. Suzanne and Lori, would you agree?
    With the last guy I dated, I truly believe it WASN’T and open and shut case of ‘He’s Just Not That Into You’. I think he’s simply a few years away from realizing his ‘dream woman’ doesn’t exist (the one who likes absolutely everything he likes and wants to live exactly where he lives etc. etc.), and that he threw back a really big fish (me!). Hopefully, I’ll be happily married to someone else (someone who appreciates me) by the time he figures that out…

    1. SingleinStilettos says:

      I completely agree, Sonia! I see it with men all the time.
      The last guy you dated is in for big reality check…the perfect woman doesn’t exist (and neither does the perfect man!). He sounds like he’s super picky, stuck in his ways, and thinks the whole world should revolve around his life and his ways….that’s not how relationship works.
      The sad part is I’ve seen men who think like that, never ever figure it out and they’re the ones that end up being single in their 40’s and 50’s still searching for the perfect woman!
      You deserve better…and a man who knows what you’re worth! 🙂

  10. "M" says:

    The whole thing about “putting the guy where you are / above you” and Lori says she
    doesn’t know why she felt that way?
    I can tell you exactly why she did it, if she was at all self-aware.
    She did it because men are insecure, and if they feel that you are in any way “above
    them”, they will put you down in sneaky, passive-aggressive ways till they
    break down your self-confidence, or they will tell you flat out “I need to be
    doing better than you” and will date women they will freely say are “beneath
    them” in order to feel more comfortable and secure.
    And one more thing. Both dating and relationship “experts” and friends & relatives do this thing where they try to pull examples out if they’re trying to disprove a point about men you are trying to make.
    Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, and Steve Jobs?
    These are not men that can be used to disprove the point above.
    Because two of them are married – when I talk about the men who behave like I’ve described
    above, I’m talking about men who are single – and Steve Jobs is no longer with us.

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