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How to Attract an Alpha Male
How to Attract an Alpha Male


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Show #100: My guest on the show is Marni Kinrys, Wing Girl & Founder of, “That’s Not How Men Work!”

Are Alpha Males Really Attracted to Strong Independent Women?

Marni has worked with a lot of single men who are alpha males and she says a lot of them are attracted to strong independent women! However that being said, men want to feel wanted and needed by women…so, if they don’t feel that way, they won’t stick around.
Men don’t want to feel like you’re the masculine energy in the relationship.  So, that means a strong independent woman needs to let the alpha male take the lead when it comes to the relationship.
It’s important to remember, there’s a big difference between a strong, independent and confident woman vs. a strong, abrasive, abrupt type of woman. An alpha male isn’t going to want to date a woman who is strong, abrasive and who wears the pants in the relationship. If he did, then he would just date a man!
And it’s important for a strong, independent woman to be able to have her own life and he have his own life, but is it’s also important for her to be able to share a life with him in a relationship.
A woman who has the attitude of, “I don’t need a man!”, is a big turn off to a man…and she probably won’t attract any man. Because what you’re doing is sending out that vibe and pushing men away.
If you want to know the secrets on where to meet men, then check out my eBook, “The Secrets on Where to Meet Men!”

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  1. SoRealTrue says:

    Strong independent women are a complete turn off for many of us men, especially since they think their all that which their Not

  2. RM says:

    Alpha males are attracted to strong women. A “domineering” male who likes weak women is actually a beta male. And a woman who is attracted to weak men is a weak woman.

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